Came across this post from a random guy's blog and I was really touched by him. I totally agree with his behaviours and seriously, I respect him though I don't even know who this write is.

I apologize for those who do not understand Chinese, I am really too tired to translate all.

Read on, especially guys.

…一个好男孩的故事,很让人感动， 我是男孩,我理解男孩的心情,我也知道在青春期的时候， 我们对女孩,尤其是自己的女友充满了好奇.并且我们都在自己的内心里想过要偷尝禁果。 于是，我们会对自己的女友说出自己的想法,甚到提出性要求。 而女孩呢,说真的,当女孩真的爱上男孩的时候,是愿意为男孩做任何的事情。 她们为了满足她们心爱男孩的需要,为了不让心爱的男友失望， 尽管她们的心里充满恐 惧，一些女孩还是会答应男友的要求。 我想知道的是在发生性关系的时候有多少男孩注意过自己的女孩的表情？ 在要发生的那一刻，她们脸上表现出来的多半是害怕,焦虑和不安，并不是满足和欲望！ 在这个时候的我们男孩又在注意什么呢？ 我们有没有注意到她们的表情？有没有想过她们当时的心里的感受？ 我说了我也是男孩， 因此，我知道,在那个时候我们最想做的就是让自己的欲望得到发泄, 让自己很久的愿望得到实现.曾经我也和很多人一样, 想要和自己爱的女孩发生那样的关系,并且向她提出了我的要求, 像我说的那样她答应了。我知道当时的她并不知道那意味着什么, 也不知道究竟要发生些什么。 我猜当时的她只知道:"这是我男友的愿望, 是他想要的,我就要满足他,只要他高兴就好。 ”女孩真的没有想过其他的事情。 就在我要进入她的身体的时候,我抬起头看了她一眼, 当我看到她那双无辜的眼睛紧紧的闭着的时候,我突然发现自己是那么的禽兽不如, 难道我曾经对她说过的那些海誓山盟,许下的那些誓言. 通通都是在骗她吗 我真的爱她吗 我感觉得到她在发抖 我知道她很害怕 ， 于是我轻轻的爬在她的耳边问了她一句:"你害怕吗?" 她睁开眼睛看着我,我看得到她的泪, 她点点头.接着我又说了一句:"那我们还是不要做了.~~~~我又再一次看到了，我爱的她美丽的笑容, 她抱住了我开心的说了一句:"我爱你!"我突然间觉得很开心, 很快乐,这些通通胜过了满足我的欲望所能得到的快乐,我发现那个也并不是很重要了, 我还有更重要的,那就是她,我最爱的宝贝. 我说我的故事只是想说一点, 当女孩爱上男孩的时候，她们愿意为我们做任何的事情, 付出任何的代价而且也不会后悔,但是，我们做为男人是不是也应该为她们做一点事情？ 学会爱护她们、尊重她们、关心她们，也让她们为拥有我们真挚的爱开心呢? （希望每一位看过的朋友都能将本文转发一遍，以唤起更多年青朋友的责任感） 每天，对你身边的人多一些微笑，就能让这个世界变得更美好一点儿 以美好的心，欣赏周遭的事物。 以真诚的心，对待每一个人。 以负责的心，做好份内的事。 以谦虚的心，检讨自己的错误。 以愉悦的心，分享他人的快乐。 以喜舍的心，帮助需要帮助的人。 以不变的心，坚持正确的理念。 以宽阔的心，包容对不起你的人。 以感恩的心，感谢所拥有的。 以无私的心，传承成功的经验。 以平常的心，接受已发生的事实。 希望每个 女孩 都懂，希望每个 男孩 都明白``爱不是占有，而是拥有```

Happy Birthday VERA LIM!

Bonsoir!

I started my first Driving lesson on Wednesday.
Driving is fun though I felt a bit nervous at the start.
Dardar has been sending me there seven in the morning these few days and waited in the school canteen till my lessons ended then brought me for early lunch.
For the past week I was rather busy, it is such a big difference as compared to the days I had just came back from China.
I felt great with my days fruitfully spent again.

Yesterday the Guitar had another gathering, this time we chose to have a steamboat over at Sophie’s house.
Not too disappointing, total ten people turned up.
It was great seeing them and for the whole night we were all busy chatting, especially Yee Bei, Veron and I.
It was difficult to keep our mouths closed from the food and the talking.
Like Yee Bei’s pig liver!
Dardar insisted on fetching me again, but as I was too eager to rush home for a bath, I demanded him not to come.
Then I took the train back with Yee Bei.
Despite being exhausted, I helped Pudding to bathe and dried him up before I had mine.
After that I revised my French for a while and planned to sleep when sis suggested that we sleep on the floor since it was so hot.
I accepted and brought Pudding to sleep with me. For the first time I hugged my toy dardar in my left arm and Pudding on the other.
The night was a silent one, I could even hear Pudding’s weak snores.
What a cute little thing!
For the first time I decided to hug him to sleep because I had just bathed him, and most importantly, I was not sleeping on my own bed!
Haha.
After a while sis they all came in and said that the air-con was too strong for Pudding and that he might catch a cold.
Hence they had decided to put him back in his own cage, for his own night to be spent in privacy.
Bonne Suit, I then slept soundly with my toy Dardar.

French vocab:
Bonsoir [bohn-swah](Good Evening!)
Bonne Suit [bun-nwee] (Goodnight)